A heartbroken mother has described how her daughter died
from meningitis after she mistook it for a hangover.
Her daughter Jennifer Gray felt sick and suffered a mild
headache after a night out with friends.
Just 24 hours later, she was in a coma after being taken
to hospital by her worried dad Jamie.
after Jennifer died her parents were told she had
bacterial meningitis, now her mum Edwina, 52, wants to educate young people
about the disease’s symptoms.
She told the Daily Record: ‘Meningitis struck my family.
It came for us like a bolt from the blue.
‘It is the worst possible thing to happen to someone who
has an only child.
‘Now I’ll never be a gran. I selfishly think about that.
I’ll never see her married. Maybe she was never going to be married because we didn’t
get to see what the future held.
‘That opportunity is gone.’
Jennifer was in her third year at the University of the
West of Scotland (UWS) in Paisley studying forensic science.
In early April, she suffered from a persistent cold with
a sore throat and a cough, but she was still attending classes.
On April 15 Jennifer was out with friends when she began
to feel unwell and left for home.
The following morning, she still felt sick and had a
headache, sore joints and nausea.
But Jennifer and her parents assumed she had a bug or a
hangover.
It was only after her symptoms worsened on Sunday, April
17, she contacted NHS 24 and was told to go to Paisley’s Royal Alexandra
Hospital.
But despite frantic efforts to save her, her condition
rapidly deteriorated and soon she was declared brain dead.
Edwina, an occupational therapist, said: ‘Her symptoms
were atypical. She didn’t have a rash. When she phoned NHS 24, that was one of
the things they were asking her.
‘Even when Jamie took her to the out-of-hours GP, the
doctor thought she had the flu.’
Edwina said she was stunned when she saw her daughter in
the hospital an hour later.
She revealed: ‘I was shocked by the condition she was in.
She looked horrendous. Within that hour since I last saw her, there was a rapid
increase in symptoms.
‘The hospital said they hadn’t seen the illness move as
fast as with Jennifer. She came in with vague symptoms and within hours, she
was dead.’
Edwina said she was always aware of the threat of
meningitis while Jennifer was growing up.
She continued: ‘When your kid is small and they’re
unwell, that is one of the first things you think of.
‘But as a 21-year-old woman, who just seemed to have a
hangover, it wasn’t something we thought about. I thought, ‘She’ll be OK’. But
it was the opposite. It was a nightmare.’
After her death, Jennifer’s organs saved five people –
even though Edwina and Jamie weren’t aware she was on the donor list.
She was also awarded a posthumous degree from UWS.

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